5 Ways to RAISE Your online Dating STANDARDS.
We live in a time where it can be hard to meet that right person. We tend to rely on websites and apps to guide us and lead the way, but it seems to be increasingly difficult to know who is genuine and legitimate on their online profile. At the same time, are you being legit about who you are and what you want out of a relationship? Below are my 5 tips to raising your online dating standards!
Create a good bio. Put your actual stats down, share interesting facts about you and most importantly--what you like to do!
When searching online profiles, people will always be attracted to the photo but be sure to read their bio. It should contain factual and informative details so you can decide if their hobbies and interests match yours (you know, just how you did for yours?!) Looks fade people!!
Choose appropriate pictures. What? Duh. No. Not just glamour shots, but you as a real person! You told us what you like to do so now show us. Being human makes us feel more relatable and 'touchable'.
Consider your 'musts' in a relationship. You know, the things that comprise your life and are the platform you operate from. If this happens to be fitness, using a dating app like Datefit that cultivates that community into one application is beneficial! Don't forget to incorporate the first three though ;).
Cross reference. Chances are if this person is on a dating app they're also on other social sites such as Facebook or Instagram. Look them up to see if what they claim fits the mold! After all, you're the one about to go spend an hour or two of your life with this person--might as well make sure they're telling the truth!
Adversity arises over unmet expectations.What vibes are you sending out?
Dating can be complicated, online dating was meant to make it easier! Be clear about who you are and what you want out of a relationship. What you put out you get back.
Until next time,
-@Lonanni
